Sa Wa Dee Ka! Or Hello !
It’s been over a month now and we are slowly getting into a groove of things. We have been working at our new job for a week and a half and enjoying every minute of it! The school year will be over, the middle of next week…Just in time for our 2 week vacation! Haha! Talk about timing!
In the mean time we have been observing other teachers, and for the past couple of days helping recruit at the new school about 45 min away from our current one. Our day basically consists of sitting around for hours waiting for parents to bring their children in for “testing”. We then evaluate their knowledge of English by asking them questions like “What is your name, what animal is this? How many are there? What color is this?” Etc. Very simple, kid stuff… The cool thing about this new school is that it is still in the process of being built. There are a good amount of trees on the property right next to us, and a group of monkeys that greet us every morning. We were told that the workers feed them everyday, probably not the best idea, but hey! When in Thailand.... We decided we would take full advantage of the situation, and bought some peanuts the day before, so we could interact with them too!
[ Just to be safe we did ask permission, and the director said it was okay! ]
Look how tiny their little hands are, it was like feeding furry humans.
Our first actual day of work was Valentines Day,
and we weren’t sure if we should expect any sort of celebration. But something we are quickly beginning to realize is that Thai’s will use any excuse to celebrate. The kids took very kindly to us, giving us lots of chocolate and enough stickers to last a lifetime. Every time I turned around “Chur! Sticker!!!" They usually don’t address you by your name, mostly “Teacher" or "Chur" for short. By the end of the day, I looked like such a fool with all my stickers, see for yourself..
Nick got a couple of stickers, but the girls thought he was cute, and decided that stickers wouldn't cut it, he left with 6 roses! Quite the stud on campus! ;)
The school is a very well known private school in Thailand. The campus is tremendous, with over 14 buildings, including a swimming pool, tennis court, track, and any other amenity you could possibly think of! We really lucked out! We get just about 2 months paid vacation, which leaves us plenty of time to plan our holiday or what the rest of the world calls a vacation. Our salary is way above average for most Thai people. We make twice as much as the Thai teachers do, for half the amount of work. It’s kind of sad, but I didn’t make the rules, I just play by them! ;) Most cities do make up for it by charging “Farongs” (foreigners) a higher price for most things, at least in Bangkok and other touristy areas! Luckily for us, our school is on the outskirts of the "Jersey side" of the city; not touristy at all, meaning no reason to jack up the prices! If you are a farong and live here you are either a teacher or a Old Fat divorced man, married to a beautiful Thai woman who waits on you hand and foot. The people in this town are very kind, some rarely see a foreigner and walking down the street we get the occasional, point and stare! Especially parents with younger kids, they will literally point at us and bow, kinda like we are celebrities or zoo animals, I can't decide. Nick and I went to the mall the other day and I am willing to bet we were the only foreigners in the entire place. It doesn’t really bother me, and for some reason I don’t feel out of place. I usually can’t understand a word that is spoken to me, but body language and context clues really help when you are trying to figure a situation out. And when in doubt, I just like to make up dialogue in my head.
Since the school year is pretty much over, Nick and I have been shadowing other foreign teachers, and learning the ropes. Being a private school, they have a really good English Program, and over 50 foreigners on staff. The students get taught all subjects in both Thai and English, which I feel really helps them get a good grasp on things. However, teaching in Thailand is not the same as it is in The States. The purpose for teaching is mainly to make money and to look the best. There is no such thing as failing a kid even if they behave badly, or refuse to do the work. You are to pass them to the lowest degree. So kids being kids (and I can't blame them) know that they can’t fail, no matter what. Having no real consequences is something I am going to struggle with but trying to accept ahead of time. Your teaching ability is judged by how well you grade their homework, and how neat and in line your check marks are. (Seriously) We are playing by an entirely different set of rules, and going with the flow is something that is in my best interest to do. On the plus side, you won't get sued or fired for hitting a child. Most Thai teachers walk a round with a ruler or stick in their hand and are NOT afraid to use them. And when a ruler is out of reach the old Back of the hand works just fine!
Over all, I am excited for the school year to begin in the end of March. I have no other choice but to take the situation for it is, a well paying job, with great time off to travel and see the world. Which essentially is what we came here to do! We are currently in the process of planning our next trip. The game plan is starting in Chiang Mai, Northern Thailand and then Checking out one of its neighboring countries Laos. I've heard many great things about both and am getting excited about seeing more of Asia!
Till next time,
Cheers!
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Im curious what do you think?
Should teachers in the states be aloud to use physical force with problem students or do you think the way The US does it is more ethical?
If you were me, if a student was acting up would you take advantage or play it safe?
If you were me, if a student was acting up would you take advantage or play it safe?
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Great question, Lisa. Knowing me, I would play it safe. Even though the rules say it is ok to hit a child, I would feel so awful raising my hand to a student. Think about it this way - you will be the kids' favorite teacher if you aren't already. :)
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ReplyDeleteSounds like a pretty sweet gig!
ReplyDeletePersonally, I would not hit a student (even if you sometimes want to!), I just think there are better ways to discipline that are more effective. Do you have your own classroom or do you float? Before school starts you should set up a behavior chart that your students are expected to follow and respect. I do simple stuff like a stop light- green is what everyone starts with, then if they misbehave they go to yellow (and then it's up to you if they can redeem themselves and go back to green or not), and if they keep acting up it goes to red. If a student gets on red then you send a note home to their parents, and if it's 2 or 3 times in a week then it's off to the principal. Meanwhile, if a student stays on green all week they get to go to the prize box! Works like a charm...
You can also try it with groups so the kids feel more responsibility to behave for the sake of their peers. Assign the class small groups and have a marble jar for each group, then add or remove marbles according to how the group behaves. First group to fill the jar gets a prize! (Stickers, candy, free hw pass...).
Oh! One more suggestion, and often a favorite of my students: Focusing solely on good behavior (which usually encourages everyone to behave better as they won't be getting the attention they want when they misbehave), hand out tickets at random when students are on task, or they do something nice, are polite, etc. Then at the end of the week have an auction and the students use their tickets as currency. It will help with math and language skills too!
Glad you guys are doing well! Miss you both! x
Hey Lee!!! What a great post!!! Especially the little homework assignment at the end. I don't think teachers should hit the kids. But, society is different across the world so what's abnormal to us is (as you clearly know) is completely normal to others. Being able to understand and accept that is a challenge people have to get over that travel. I can't imagine you threatening a kid with a ruler lol... the idea makes me chuckle.. especially the IDEA of you just raising it like, "WHY I AUGGGTTTAAA...." haha Love you! And love the monkey pix- good thing you woke up early to get that cam! :) Miss you.
ReplyDeleteKat- better safe than sorry!
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Ooh thanks Jen Love those ideas! We do Float, so its a little bit of a bummer that we wont have our own classroom.
Hahah and Amber I Died, Why I Outtta!!!
So far the way ive done it is to use a little force, and i do carry around a ruler.. but i dont hit them with it.. ill just tap it on the desk. Its kinda like a magic stick... the Thai teachers do it so they are already afraid of it.. i dont even need to use it but it gives me her power and respect! :)
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